Stress and Anxiety occurred when there is a gap between
Expectation and Reality. In order to reduce the Stress or Anxiety, we can
either close the gap by setting a more realistic expectation or improve the
status of reality. When a thing doesn’t happen according to the expectation, we
will be receiving unpleasant experience and stress. Some people may be able to
cope with the stressful feeling and set recovery actions to solve the issue.
However, certain people may start to judge himself and create negative self remarks.
This behavior will further increase their stress and anxiety.
In 1979, Jon Kabat-Zinn founded the Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) program at the University of Massachusetts to treat the chronically ill. This program sparked the application of mindfulness practices in Medicine. Mindfulness is a technique to connect with the current moment and we will be able to be aware of the event, our thought, emotion and body sensation associated with the event. We can easily utilize body sensation or breathe to obtain mindfulness. It trains us to look and accept things as they are without judging and expectation. In this way, we are able to see things in a non-personal and more neutral way. Right decision and choice could be made leading to increase of performance efficiency. The end result of mindfulness practice enable us to take conscious decision instead of habitual reaction. It brings the awareness about “we have the choice to choose” and create our emotion reality. We can still allow ourselves thinking and planning, the difference is we do it mindfully instead of in an unaware, random, distracted and stray away manner.
In 1979, Jon Kabat-Zinn founded the Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) program at the University of Massachusetts to treat the chronically ill. This program sparked the application of mindfulness practices in Medicine. Mindfulness is a technique to connect with the current moment and we will be able to be aware of the event, our thought, emotion and body sensation associated with the event. We can easily utilize body sensation or breathe to obtain mindfulness. It trains us to look and accept things as they are without judging and expectation. In this way, we are able to see things in a non-personal and more neutral way. Right decision and choice could be made leading to increase of performance efficiency. The end result of mindfulness practice enable us to take conscious decision instead of habitual reaction. It brings the awareness about “we have the choice to choose” and create our emotion reality. We can still allow ourselves thinking and planning, the difference is we do it mindfully instead of in an unaware, random, distracted and stray away manner.
Mindfulness practice could cultivate our capacity of acceptance
and compassion. The acceptance and compassion not only towards other people or
events, more importantly is about we need to learn how to accept our self and
have compassion on our past behaviors. Self-support, kindness and compassion
will motivate and strengthen our ability to cope with negative situation.
When an unfavorable event happened, a primary thought will
form in response to the event. If a person habitually form a secondary thought which
linked to negative belief about self such as “I am no good”, then the self-critic
such as “I am a life failure, this thing is not going to be a success” will kick
in making him feel powerless and even more stressed. To the extreme, panic
attack may happen and the patient will not be able to function normally. Mindfulness
practice will enable a person to hold their experience and thought, up to
primary thought level only. This will eliminate occurrence of the unnecessary habitual
secondary thought thus prevent the stress or anxiety to escalate.
Mindfulness connects us to current moment. This technique provides
the avenue to disconnect us from unfavorable past which create depressed
emotion and uncertainty future which make a person anxious. It is a very useful
non-religious exercise that built inner strengths to reduce stress and anxiety. With proper guidance on the
technique, everyone could practice mindfulness anytime, anywhere with a clear
mind to achieve body, emotion and mental well being.
Reference: Mindfulness Technique for Stress and Anxiety in
Malaysia
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